Tomorrow I’ll be thirty.
THIRTY. Thirty years of living out in this big, wild world. Thirty years of moments seemingly haphazardly yet ultimately meaningfully strung together to create this life I live.
You don’t get through thirty years of moments without experiencing some deep ruptures. Thirty years is enough time for a lot of heartache and a lot of sorrow. It’s also enough time for a lot of beauty, joy and wide-eyed grace. I come to thirty with a lot of scars, but they are scars that speak of brokenness being made beautiful. I am deeply grateful that I come to thirty leaning face-first into the wonder of a healing grace that soaks into my ruins and makes them fruitful.
With thirty so close I can see it peeking around the corner, I thought I’d put pen to paper and share a few of the things I have learned in these thirty years in the hope that they help shape the next.
- My value is not dependent on what I achieve, produce or accomplish. It is inherent in my design and nothing in all creation will be able to change it. According to Jesus, I am worth dying for.
- Dream big, but don’t live in your dreams. The only way to build towards your dreams becoming reality is to live and invest in the present.
- Different folks, different strokes. We’re all different and that’s okay. I am not judge and jury over anybody, and nobody but God is my Judge.
- It’s better to be faithful than brilliant.
- Don’t interpret what your love interest says and does through the lens of your preferred future with them.
- Feel what you are feeling.
- Don’t worry about needing something profound to say. Giving someone your time communicates more profoundly than you know.
- Don’t shut your heart.
- Better out than in: if you’re thinking something nice about someone, tell them.
- It is better by far to walk with the God of love in the unknown than with fear in the known.
- Whatever your gift, wear it well.
- There’s hope in the tunnel and light at the end.
- As it’s been said, you’d worry less about what others think of you if you realised how seldom they do.
- If you keep your options open and never choose anything, you’ll end up with nothing.
- Waiting both takes and forges resilience.
- We receive love by surrendering to it.
- People are not mind readers.
- Find ways to look up to and admire those you are caring for. Don’t look down on others.
- I can help to provide the right conditions for something to grow, but I cannot force growth.
- Love gives birth to life.
This is a great list! Thank you
Looking forward to the next instalment!